Jan-Juba Arway’s young life was marked by periods of flight.
When she was a baby, her family fled from South Sudan to Sudan. There, Arway fled to a nunnery to avoid ending up like her peers: married and pregnant. Her family came to collect her.
When she was 14 years old, they fled again to Egypt. There, a man followed Arway home and asked her family to marry her. They said yes; she was soon pregnant.
In the U.S., she ran again, this time from her house and husband in Arizona. She packed her four children in the back of a car and drove 2,300 miles to a women’s shelter in Syracuse, far from her husband and far from those she loved: her mother and sister.
For all refugees, the culture they carry from their home countries can be both comforting and constraining. Women, especially, experience those two realities in their extremes.
